| How To Marry A Wealthy Guy(or Girl... Or at | | | | decision about who you like and be kind |
| least Make Sure they're a Good Money | | | | whenever you can. It's very hard for a man to |
| Manager!! ha,ha!)Here are some little tips so | | | | approach a woman in a group (all the more |
| you can at least spot a wealthy (or | | | | reason not to always travel in packs!), so if |
| soon-to-be-wealthy) guy:1. If that BMW he's | | | | you're not offended by the guy, one little |
| driving is most likely leased, you may be | | | | dance is the polite thing to do. Unless it's |
| looking at a guy who owes a whole lot of | | | | a slow song, and he's been leering at you all |
| money to someone else... It's pretty easy to | | | | night, in which case a simple 'No Thanks. |
| LOOK rich. You might want to check out the | | | | Maybe a Fast dance later on...' ought to |
| guy in the Truck or not-so-new-but-still-nice | | | | work. Strike up some conversations and have |
| vehicle -- chances are high that he's the one | | | | some fun!5. Learn how to cook. No kidding. |
| who's been saving his bucks, and has the | | | | Check out my favorite recipes on the Tips & |
| ability to make a whole lot more of them!2. | | | | Recipes Page, and try your hand at one of the |
| High Maintenance Women are great for High | | | | recipes. I haven't met a man, yet, who |
| Maintenance Men -- are you willing to be a | | | | doesn't love Cheesecake, so give that one a |
| Barbie forever? Think you ever want to just | | | | shot! Hey, you'll have a lovely treat for you |
| kick back and enjoy your life? Probably not | | | | and your girlfriends while you seek out that |
| with this guy -- he'll demand perfection -- | | | | guy! You don't need to cook everything, it's |
| his mother will, too, and yes, she'll | | | | just very useful to have a couple of |
| definitely come with the package. (Hey, I | | | | signature dishes that you can make that will |
| don't know why these guys are like that -- | | | | be fun to make for your new guy!6. Have (and |
| it's just a part of the special -- and | | | | go to...) parties with other single people. |
| sometimes anal retentive -- package that you | | | | Make them pre-timed in the afternoon, if it's |
| can often get with the Rich and Famous!)3. | | | | too weird to have one in the evening. Say, |
| Wealthy Men are really looking for | | | | from 2:00pm - 4:00pm on a Sunday. Have each |
| down-to-earth women who won't blow their | | | | friend you invite bring another single |
| budget. (Go ahead... make all your jokes | | | | person. Be sure to include your 'couple |
| here...I'll wait! ...) They are open to | | | | friends', too -- they are great sources for |
| friendly women who would make easy companions | | | | single folk! At the very least, you might |
| -- fun to talk with who can get down to | | | | make a new friend or business acquaintance. |
| business when they need to -- which is fairly | | | | Sunday works, since you're more likely to get |
| often -- that's how wealth is made and kept! | | | | into a restaurant if you like someone enough |
| He wants to be married for life, since he is | | | | to continue the conversation over dinner.7. |
| seriously trying to avoid losing half of his | | | | Speaking of Dinner Out -- this is a very good |
| wealth-to-date in a Divorce.Now, here's a | | | | sign of what kind of man you're dealing with |
| difference between a Rich Man and a Wealthy | | | | -- a fellow who makes it clear in advance of |
| Man...a Rich Man is a fellow with a | | | | the meal that it's his treat is a good guy. |
| tremendous amount of money, and often he is | | | | Not in a weird way, though -- if he goes on |
| looking for a 'Trophy Wife'. A Wealthy Man is | | | | and on that he's going to pay, and it's a |
| someone who has worked really hard for his | | | | huuuge deal, forget it. This guy's crazy with |
| money and who wants to not only keep it, he | | | | his money, and you don't want to date a guy |
| wants to make sure it grows. The Wealthy Man | | | | like this, let alone marry him!) If he wants |
| is looking for a Partner to work along side | | | | to share the tab on the first date, watch |
| him in this growth business, and help him | | | | out. Don't worry about that old thing where |
| keep his life running smoothly, then the | | | | everything should be equal or you won't be on |
| whole family is much happier.Remember that | | | | equal footing. If you like him, you can offer |
| the Type of Work that a Wealthy Man does may | | | | to pick up the tab on the next meal... Just |
| not match what is typically thought of as a | | | | the offer of reciprocation is very indicative |
| 'monied position'. The old thinking was that | | | | of your willingness to be equal partners, and |
| only Doctors and Lawyers were the ones with | | | | that's what he's looking for.Now, of course, |
| money (this doesn't include Athletes, since | | | | if you ask him out, you should also be |
| they are few and far between, and we're | | | | prepared to foot the bill. Don't feel like |
| talking about men you might actually come in | | | | you have to hit the best restaurant in town |
| contact with on any given day..!). | | | | -- you could have a nice picnic in the Park, |
| Enterpreneurs, Contractors, Teachers (yes, | | | | or have him over to your place for dinner (if |
| some teachers are really, really good money | | | | you've already had a few dates and you're |
| managers, and are able to amass all sorts of | | | | comfortable with this).I actually had a |
| wealth!), People in Construction and Real | | | | 'blind date' years ago where the fellow |
| Estate, and let's not forget Computers! | | | | brought a Grocery List and a Recipe for me to |
| Almost any line of work can lead a person | | | | make dinner for him -- can you believe that?? |
| down the Road to Wealth -- it's all about | | | | And to think he's still single -- who'da |
| Money Management, not necessarily how much | | | | thunk that?! I couldn't believe it, so I |
| you make in any given year.Keep an open mind | | | | suggested just going out for Chinese, and |
| when you meet a new person to see what | | | | guess who paid the bill -- me! I couldn't get |
| they're really all about. You'll ensure a | | | | rid of him fast enough... (just so you know, |
| better future for yourself if you hook up | | | | this guy was no poor soul -- I was poorer |
| with a man who has a solid understanding of | | | | than dirt at the time, but he was an |
| Wealth Management. A guy with a really high | | | | Architect and Professor... see how important |
| salary who spends like a fiend (and NOT on | | | | knowing how they deal with money is? Being |
| Real Estate! ha,ha!) in order to APPEAR | | | | with a man whose wallet squeaks and dust |
| Wealthy will be more difficult to get ahead | | | | puffs out when he finally opens it is a |
| with than someone who earns less but manages | | | | nightmare to be married to -- he'll control |
| his money well.4. Hang out at Boat Shows -- | | | | his own and your money for the entire |
| those guys are typically loaded. They have to | | | | marriage.) And you always thought it was just |
| be to buy a boat and then actually take it | | | | a little meal!8. Be yourself -- no need to |
| out on the water. If you're lucky enough to | | | | put on any airs. That's no fun and you want |
| live near water, hang about (not | | | | someone who will love you, not some made-up |
| leeringly...) at the Docks. Who knows who you | | | | version of yourself. You know you're lots of |
| might run into...? Hey, Building and Home | | | | fun to be around -- let him see that, too!9. |
| Shows are great, too -- maybe you'll get some | | | | Be confident. Know that you are worthy of |
| great ideas while you're there, too!Don't | | | | being with him -- and make sure he is worthy |
| forget to pop into shops where the wealthy go | | | | of being with you. Money isn't everything -- |
| -- the Home Improvement Stores, Stationary | | | | sometimes it comes with a great big jerk at |
| Supply Stores, the Jean Stores (yes, contrary | | | | the end of the leash! (Ha, ha! I'm amusing |
| to popular opinion, many wealthy men wear | | | | myself, now, with that dog analogy!) Be extra |
| jeans!) and, of course, the grocery and | | | | careful not to get too swept up in the cars |
| liquor stores!I'm not sure why Bars got such | | | | and houses (although, I've been known to be |
| a bad rap -- especially Dance Bars and Cool | | | | swayed by a gorgeous home in the past...and |
| Pubs. They're fun to hang out at with your | | | | currently, too! And a really gorgeous pool |
| friends, and perhaps you'll meet someone | | | | could still turn my head! ha,ha!). It's the |
| nice. Keep in mind that 'the wealthy' | | | | guy you have to live with, so might as well |
| generally didn't start out that way -- you | | | | pretend that the other stuff isn't in the |
| might find a diamond in the rough!Sports | | | | picture and see if you still like him. |
| Games are great, too (small plug -- I'd like | | | | (Although, truth be told, there's many a man |
| to see every Sports Team out there with their | | | | who would be all alone if it weren't for |
| own Logo on a Buff so when you went to games | | | | their many attractive 'assets'! ha!)10. Well, |
| there'd be a whole SEA of Buffs for each side | | | | ladies, go out there and find the man of your |
| -- if you know someone interested in that, | | | | dreams! Hey, find two or three! You might |
| for Goodness Sake have them contact me! | | | | need a back-up, just in case! Good |
| Pweeeease!) Back to the games -- want a manly | | | | Luck!Remember that Wealth can be measured by |
| man? Check out the local Rugby matches... | | | | many things -- a Wealth of Possibilities is |
| Love Hockey or Basketball? Try to catch the | | | | sometimes even more fun in a mate than |
| NHL and MBA (whooops! Slight trip of the | | | | finding everything ready-made. Then you can |
| tongue, there! Although those MBA guys are | | | | then grow in your Wealth, together. Doesn't |
| great, too...) ... Should be NBA Games, then | | | | that sound like fun? Plus, Rich to one person |
| go meet the Players -- there's usually a cool | | | | might mean being able to pay all the bills |
| Bar in or nearby the Arena where you could | | | | without worrying, and to the next person |
| 'mingle'! No gushing, though -- play it calm | | | | 'Rich' might mean having the biggest Yacht in |
| and collected -- they'll appreciate the lack | | | | the Habour. Make up your own mind about 'How |
| of craziness! All the people you will meet in | | | | much does it take to be Wealthy', and you'll |
| this scenario will be interesting, so keep | | | | be well on your way to your own Personal |
| your mind open and make some new friends.Just | | | | Wealth and Happiness!Ailsa Forshaw is a |
| one little tidbit about going out with a | | | | Writer, Builder, Website Owner & Manager, |
| group of girls -- watch out for the 'group | | | | Teacher, Mother... all in Alberta, Canada. |
| syndrome', where some poor soul comes over to | | | | She is Married with Two Lovely Children, and |
| ask you to dance and there's a quick and | | | | one gorgeous wee dog. Her Website, is chock |
| seldom subtle 'group decision' about 'whether | | | | full of all sorts of useful & fun information |
| he should be permitted a dance or not'... | | | | to help anyone become Financially Successful, |
| ugh. Everybody hates this -- it's not High | | | | Slim, Trim, and Happy... what more could you |
| School anymore ... always make your own | | | | want?? Pop in for a wee visit! |