| How can women get their dream diamond
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| | themselves from making an expensive
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| engagement ring when it is the boyfriend
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| | mistake. They become even more determined
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| making the purchase and wanting it to be
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| | not to make a mistake so they spend the
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| a surprise? To find the answer you need
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| | next weeks and months gathering ever fact
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| to understand your man's thought process.
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| | and opinion they can find on diamond
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| After all, he is shopping for a diamond,
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| | buying. It is almost like trying to get a
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| the symbol of his love for you.
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| | drink from a fire hydrant. There is just
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| The man shopping for an engagement
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| | too much to drink in.
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| diamond has three primary shopping
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| | It is at this stage of the shopping
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| priorities:
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| | process men sometimes forget the reason
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| 1) They want to make a good investment
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| | they started on this adventure in the
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| 2) They want to make you happy
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| | first place. They can lose sight of the
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| 3) They fear disappointing you or worse
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| | fact that their primary goal is to make
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| yet, rejection
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| | their girlfriend happy.
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| On all three points, men act out of fear
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| | If you are a woman, by now you are
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| of making a mistake. Their pride and
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| | probably getting the picture. However,
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| desire to surprise their girlfriend
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| | you are asking yourself, what should I do
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| typically prohibit them from asking the
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| | to help ensure the diamond of my dreams
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| woman's advice. As men so often do, they
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| | and the proposal moment as romantic as I
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| try to apply logic to what is a very
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| | hope?
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| emotional decision.
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| | Here are some suggestions that can help
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| Most men attack diamond shopping the same
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| | make your dreams come true:
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| as any other problem they face. They
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| | 1) Do some shopping yourself so you can
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| research the subject, gather all the
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| | tell your boyfriend what shape of diamond
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| facts (often in a spreadsheet), and then
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| | you like best on your finger. Do not
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| make a logical decision. They assume you
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| | leave it up to him to guess wrong.
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| will have the same priorities they have
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| | 2) If you sense this is going to be
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| so they focus on what will be a good
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| | mostly a surprise gift, drop some subtle
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| investment. They seek a high quality
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| | hints about what kind of mounting
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| diamond fearing that anything less will
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| | (solitaire, side stones, etc.) you want
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| as somehow imply some lower level of
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| | for your diamond. If you do not know,
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| love.
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| | hint you want something very simple so he
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| The man's first stop is often the jewelry
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| | does not make an expensive mistake.
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| store in the closest shopping mall. They
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| | 3) If you have a strong preference for
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| walk in the door and realize they just
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| | the type of metal in the ring (yellow
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| entered a world foreign to them. They
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| | gold, white gold, platinum), find a way
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| look at rings in the display cases and
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| | to tell him.
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| see more zeros in the price tag than they
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| | 4) If you have the type of relationship
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| have seen since they bought their car.
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| | that supports it, get involved in the
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| Their heart starts pounding as they
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| | diamond buying process. There are more
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| realize they have to spend thousands of
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| | couples shopping together for the
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| dollars on a tiny little rock they know
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| | engagement ring now than ever before and
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| nothing about, then give it away to
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| | the result is often higher levels of
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| someone else or worse yet, face
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| | happiness and lower levels of stress.
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| rejection.
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| | Many couples now shop together so the
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| Now their legs are shaking so they decide
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| | boyfriend knows what shape of diamond the
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| they need to do more research and do it
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| | girlfriend likes, knows what style of
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| in a friendlier environment. They head
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| | mounting she likes and then he takes that
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| home, turn on the computer, and start
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| | knowledge to buy the ring on his own
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| searching online for clues on how to
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| | timetable and make the presentation a
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| survive the diamond buying process. Their
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| | surprise.
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| goal is to find a pretty ring their
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| | The bottom line is your man is trying, to
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| girlfriend will like and have a few
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| | the best of his ability, to do all the
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| dollars left in their pocket. They feel
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| | right things to make you happy. You just
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| more comfortable with the discussions of
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| | need to be patient and try to appreciate
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| the four C's (color, clarity, carat
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| | the effort he is making on your behalf.
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| weight and cut) where they can match up
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| | If you would like to see this diamond
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| those letter grades with their budget to
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| | gift giving repeated, then by all means
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| find some possible options. However, with
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| | tell him how proud you are of his
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| a little knowledge comes the sinking
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| | research show him how much you love that
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| feeling that there is a whole lot more
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| | sparkling diamond on your finger.
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| for them to learn in order to protect
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