Picking the Right Diamond - and Setting

Deciding to propose to the special somebody inbrilliance when compared to very good and ideal
your life is a huge decision, one that will lead youcut diamonds, however, they are significantly
down a path of even more decisions. Of course,more cost-effective than either very good or
the first thing that needs to be decided afterideal cut diamonds, making them more accessible.
you've decided to propose is what type of- Fair & Poor - these cuts of diamond simply
engagement ring to get. Between diamonds andfail to reflect a sufficient amount of the light that
settings there are so many choices that it can beenters them. Usually found in discount or
overwhelming. Hopefully this can be cleared up.promotional jewelry, it is nearly impossible to find
The Diamondthese diamond cuts at any quality seller of
While you're probably more than familiar with thediamonds and engagement rings.
4 C's of diamonds, there are other things toThe Setting
consider when choosing a diamond, chief amongstAs important as the diamond is, the Setting may
them, the shape. Here we'll focus on the shapebe just as important. You can have a great
and two of the C's; cut and carat. Clarity anddiamond, but put that diamond into the wrong
color can be saved for another day.Setting and it can lose a lot of its luster and
The Shapeappeal. While there aren't nearly as many Setting
With so many shapes out there it can betypes as there are shapes and cuts of diamonds,
confusing as to the actual differences, so let'sthere are enough that when combined with the
simply talk about each of them and their individualdiamond cuts and shapes you have enough
merits.combinations to make choosing tricky.
- Round - the most basic of diamonds, and theThe Setting
only shape not considered "fancy," this shape is- Prong - arguably the most common setting, the
very much how it sounds - a rounded diamond inprong setting is commonly known as the Tiffany
the shape of a circle.setting. Small metal prongs, typically 4 or 6, are
- Princess - arguably the most popular shape, thisused to clasp over the diamond and keep it in
squared diamond has only grown in popularityplace within the setting while giving an optimal
while still being a relatively new shape. Theview of the diamond at all angles. When choosing
princess diamond tends to find its way intothis setting it's wise to consider which metal you'll
solitaire engagement rings more than any of thebe choosing as you may want something
other shapes.stronger than gold, such as Palladium or Platinum,
- Emerald - a rectangular shaped diamond, thisto ensure that your diamond doesn't come out of
shape is reflective of a classic and aristocraticthe setting.
elegance. Unlike other diamonds, the emerald- Channel - in this setting the stones are placed
shaped diamond is not a brilliant cut but rather abetween vertical walls of metal, side by side, with
step cut, being comprised of larger, planar facetsno metal separating the diamonds from each
that resemble stair steps and act like mirrors.other. With the diamonds sunk into the ring itself
- Marquise - long and slender, this shape, originallythey are nearly flush with the surface of the ring.
commissioned by Louis XIV of France, isThis setting is considered both very
wonderful for maximizing the carat within thecontemporary and very classic and allows one to
setting. The marquise shape will accentuate theachieve a number of looks. This setting is very
length of the fingers and works well on a personpopular in wedding rings and anniversary bands.
with longer fingers.- Basket - similar to the prong setting, but instead
- Oval - as the name implies, this diamond shapeof just the prongs holding the diamond in place
is a very simple oval. This shape works very wellthere is an additional band of metal that secures
with smaller hands and shorter fingers, givingthe prongs to help reduce any movement of the
them the illusion of added length.prongs and ensure the security of the diamond
- Pear - a hybrid shape combining the bestwithin the setting.
elements of the oval and marquise shapes, it- Bar - with the bar setting, diamonds are placed
resembles nothing so much as a teardrop.between bars of metal that run perpendicular to
Typically used in pendants and earrings, this shapethe band of the engagement ring. This setting is a
compliments short to average length fingers,very contemporary look that allows for excellent
helping to give the illusion of longer fingers muchdisplay of the diamonds.
like the oval shaped diamond does.- Pave - with the pave setting many small
- Heart - essentially a pear shaped diamond with agemstones are placed inside of tapered holes to
cleft at the top, the heart shaped diamond is thecreate a "paved" appearance. The diamonds are
ultimate symbol of romance. This shaped diamondtypically set in white gold to help create a sparkle
is frequently seen in pendants but is more thanfinish that will bring the stones to prominence.
acceptable as a choice in a ring.- Bezel - this setting involves placing the diamond
- Radiant - this square or rectangular shapedin a mount that comes up and envelopes the
diamond does an excellent job of combining thediamond. Without any prongs, this mount is great
elegant and classic appeal of the emerald shapefor those that lead an active lifestyle, don't want
with the brilliance of the round shape.to worry about scratching themselves or others,
- Trillion - a wedge of brilliant fire, the trillionor for those whose job requires that they wear
shaped diamond was first developed inlatex gloves on a regular basis. Bezel settings can
Amsterdam. Traditionally a triangle shapedhave straight edges, scalloped edges, or can be
diamond, the amount of point at the corners ismolded to any shape to accommodate varying
often open for interpretation, but these diamondsstones.
work well as both a compliment to a center- Half-Bezel - similar in design to the bezel setting.
stone, a unique center stone in themselves, or asThe half-bezel setting does not completely
a pair of earrings.surround the diamond, allowing additional light to
- Baguette - very reminiscent of the emeraldreach the stone and create a higher degree of
shaped diamond, this shape of diamond isbrilliance.
frequently used as side stones to a larger center- Tension - This type of setting uses the ring
stone. Much like the emerald shaped diamond, theitself as the entire mounting, eschewing the use
baguette shape doesn't feature nearly the sparkleof prongs. Typically employing stronger metals
of brilliant shaped diamonds, but does offer aand a thicker band to help maintain the tension on
classic beauty that is hard to match.the stone, this setting does an excellent job of
The shape is only the first part of what to lookhighlighting the diamond by giving it the
for, at least initially, when considering a diamondappearance of floating within the ring.
for an engagement ring.As you can see, there are more than enough
The Caratoptions to make choosing that perfect diamond
Carats are essentially a way to measure theengagement ring tricky, so now that you're
weight of diamonds. While the use of the carataware of the options here's some advice on
measuring system may date back to ancientgetting the ring that she'll love and cherish for as
Oriental bazaars and the carob seed, in thelong as you're together.
present we know that the more carats in the- Talk to Her - find out what it is she wants from
diamond, the bigger it is.a ring. Does she want a solitaire ring or has she
While the size of the diamond that you get canhad her heart set on a three stone diamond ring
be determinate on a number of factors, not thesince she was a little girl? Is it princess shape or
least of which is cost, the Setting and Mountingno shape, or will she be happy with anything as
that you choose can also have an influence on thelong as it comes from you? Is there a particular
size of the diamond that you get for your ring.metal that she would prefer for the actual band
The Cutof the ring?
Of the 4 C's of a diamond, the cut is the only- Be Aware of Your Budget - sure, tradition says
part that is actually influenced by humans, natureyou're supposed to spend two months salary on
getting to decide on the carat, clarity, and color ofthe ring, but depending on what your salary is
an individual diamond. Cut refers to the angles andthat could mean you're also not eating for a
proportions a jeweler creates when taking acouple of weeks. Be realistic with yourself when
rough diamond and transforming it into a beautiful,you start shopping for a ring, get her what she
polished diamond. The cut of the diamond shouldwants, but also make sure that you won't have
not be confused with the shape of the diamond.to take out a second mortgage just to buy the
A well cut diamond will reflect light from onering she's wanted since she was 12 years old.
mirrored facet to another internally, finally- Show Her What You're Looking At - if you're
dispersing and reflecting the light through the topready to propose the odds are pretty good that
of the stone, giving it that sparkle that diamondsshe's ready for you to propose. If the proposal is
are beloved for.no secret then have her help you pick out the
There are a few ways that diamonds are gradedring, or propose with a small, inexpensive ring and
for their cut, all of which are influenced by thethen take her with you to pick out her real
diameter, table, crown, girdle, pavilion, cutlet, andengagement ring. That way you can be sure that
depth of the stone, and those include:she gets what she wants.
- Ideal - this is the best cut available and- Talk to an Expert - You might be surprised that
represents the top 15% of all diamond cuts. Thethe person behind the counter at the store or
ideal cut carries with it the highest possible gradeschecking email online is actually an expert. If
of symmetry and polish and should be soughtyou're not sure just know that it's better to ask
after when looking for the best availablequestions then to get it wrong. Tell those experts
diamonds.about how your better half lives, what they've
- Very Good - diamonds graded at very good arementioned they'd want in a ring, what they do for
still nothing short of amazing, but they do tend toa living. All those things can give the person you're
trade in some of the brilliance seen in an idealtalking to a better idea of what kind of diamond
diamond cut for added size. While a moreengagement ring would work best for the most
cost-effective option, they may tend to moveimportant person in your life.
outside the appearance range for some buyers.Picking out an engagement ring can be intimidating.
Very good diamonds represent the top 25% ofBetween the diamonds and the settings there are
diamond cuts.more options than is really reasonable to look at.
Knowing what your better half wants can help
- Good Cut - representing the top 35% ofnarrow down that list and ensure that you get
diamond cuts, good cut diamonds are still qualitythe ring that will have her saying yes over and
cuts, but they will show a significant lack ofover again.